Lessons 21-24: Formula for Releasing Stress and Worry
Tuesday, June 12th, 2007In Hebrews 12:2, Christ is referred to as the “author and finisher of our faith.” When we put ourselves in His care, His goal is to “finish” - “polish or perfect” our faith. His sole objective is to increase your faith to a level that you can return home to live with Him and your Father in heaven. When we are filled with this faith, we have no room for worry.As a fiction author, I’ve gained new insight into the role of our Savior as the author and finisher of our faith. For example, a good author doesn’t give you all the facts in the first chapter. He doesn’t solve the mystery in chapter one or two. He weaves a tale, holding you in suspense, helping you learn and grow with the characters, come to love the hero or heroine, and then wows you in the end with a wonderful conclusion. He might foreshadow a bit, might give you a foretaste of how it’s all going to work out, but He won’t reveal the ending completely. That would ruin the story! You might even know how the story will most likely end (happily or the hero reaching his goal) but you don’t know HOW just yet. That’s how life is. That’s how God works.
If we could relax and get to the point where we truly enjoyed the story, resisted flipping to the end to see how it’s all going to work out, then we’d enjoy life a whole lot more. So how do you do that? How do you truly relax and live in the NOW? He’s already promised us a happy ending if we trust Him in faithfulness! How do you come to truly believe in Him for a happy ending? How do you trust that not only will all things work together for your good, but also you’re going to love where He takes you? (Romans 8:28)
I believe the answer lies in discovering the line between what we control and what God controls. Which part of the creative process is ours, and which is His? Every good author eventually addresses the following questions: Who? What? Why? When? Where? and How? In life, there are only two of these questions you can control - the What and the Why. The rest are all up to God. The sooner we release the following questions, the sooner Heavenly Father can help us fly to our full potential:
- How is it going to happen?
- When will it occur?
- Who else will be involved in making it happen?
- Where is it going to happen?
Once you release these questions to His care, you’ll trust your Heavenly Father, and He’ll trust you. You’ll have a relationship, and He’ll help you fly to your fullest potential. But as long as you struggle and fight over things you can’t control, you’ll be limited in your sphere of influence and opportunity.